I used to have Pharyngula on the blogroll, and I used to visit it daily. I removed it some time ago and now only look in once a week or less.
Pharyngula used to be fun. PZ Myers would write about science; he would often write with some heat about creationism and its attacks on science and education; occasionally he would say something nasty about Christianity, and of course all his minions (as he himself calls them) would join in with profane and scatalogical abuse. This was often offensive, but I could read past it and enjoy the science and things like the horoscope predictions that he once did.
And then there was the cracker incident.
Some jerk received a communion wafer and, instead of consuming it as expected, took it away and, I guess, made some threat to it, and he was then reviled and even threatened by believers. I could not endure the vileness on Pharyngula long enough to get all the details. Anyway, PZ joined in and requested that someone steal a communion wafer and send it to him, and he would publicly abuse and defile it to prove that it was just a cracker. Someone did and he did, and the lunatic fringe responded with predictable fury, including death threats.
Now, I’m an atheist born and bred. My parents were not religious; although I never got the chance to ask my mother about her beliefs, I don’t recall anything about her that suggested that she was a believer, and certainly my father and stepmother were not. We attended church if we happened to be at my grandparents’ house on Sunday, since they were believers, but other than that I have never attended a church service except for weddings and funerals. I did go to an Episcopal school and we were required to attend chapel every morning, but they were well aware that many students were either non-believers or believers in other faiths, so “chapel” was basically “school assembly” with hymns (which I like for the music) and a dollop of light preaching, which I ignored.
On the other hand, I was brought up to be respectful of the beliefs of others. I do not pray, but I will bow my head and be respectfully silent when others do. And although I think religious belief is generally foolish, I don’t have the arrogance to say that people who live by their religion have wasted their lives; if they get joy from their lives without harming others, who am I do to criticize?
And more particularly, why should I interfere with them if they’re not interfering with me? Sure, I think a communion wafer is just a cracker and I would have no emotional response at all to seeing a cracker tossed in the trash, but that’s not how Catholics feel, so what possible reason could there be for me to deliberately cause them pain by defiling a communion wafer?
It’s kind of like this: there are things in my house that you would call junk, even trash, and pitch without a thought if they were yours, but to me they are treasures because of where I got them, who gave them to me, what was going on in my life when they came into my hands. It would hurt and diminish me if they were damaged, destroyed, or just ill-treated. You may have things like that too. I respect your feelings about such “junk” — even though it isn’t my junk and I don’t respect it in itself — and I hope that you would respect mine. Likewise, I respect a Catholic’s feelings about the communion wafer.
In short, despite being an atheist, I was offended by PZ’s offer to defile a communion wafer. I am also appalled at the lunatic fringe who threatened him; it is extremely sad that any controversial public figure today gets death threats like that. And they aren’t just threats, either; I don’t know if PZ needs bodyguards, but there are other public figures who do. So I am sympathetic and supportive of him just because of the death threats.
But since the cracker incident, Pharyngula has become nearly all Christian-bashing, to the point where I cannot bring myself to read it. Often I cannot even get past the titles of the posts. When I most recently dropped by, the first post was about “Death Cultists”. Dare I ask what a death cultist is? Is it someone who believes that their religion requires them to commit suicide? Is it someone who preaches, and practices, mass murder as the highest and best sacrament of their religion? Is it someone who holds public celebrations, dances in the street, and passes out candy, on learning of a successful act of mass murder? Is it someone who teaches children that it is their religious duty to clear minefields by rolling through them (rolling so as to maximize their chances of hitting a mine)?
No, of course not. On Pharyngula, death cultists are mainstream Christians, the sort of people that I deal with every day at work, people who in many cases are my friends, people who have never threatened me or done anything at all to harm me, people who go out of their way to help others after disasters even if the others don’t share their faith, people who express sorrow for the deaths of others and horror at their murder even if the others don’t share their faith, deeply caring people that I admire….
Snarl! I get too angry to even type coherently when I think of the misuse of the term “death cultist” on Pharyngula.
So that’s why I don’t list Pharyngula on the blogroll, and I seldom go there. In fact, it’ll probably be a month or more before I go back there. Maybe after a while the hopenchangey will induce PZ to dial down his hatred, though I doubt it.